The Art of Calmness, a gift for your dog.
Creating calmness is one of the most transformative lessons I’ve learned with my high-energy dog. It wasn’t an overnight revelation, but when calmness became the cornerstone of our relationship, it changed everything for us as a team.
The first step in building the skill lies in self-reflection. Be honest with yourself how calm is your dog, really? perhaps more importantly, how calm are you? Our dogs reflect our energy. When we feel frustrated, anxious or overwhelmed, it can ripple into their behaviour.
Now let’s talk about those moments when your puppy or dog seems like a problem. Here’s a reframe that I’d love for you to try:
Your dog isn’t being difficult – they’re just finding the situation difficult. That’s an important distinction.
Here’s some situations that may be difficult:
- They might bark at a stranger walking into a coffee shop where you’re sitting.
- They could overreact to a horse trotting past you on a quiet lane.
- Or they might become focused on the scent of a squirrel that recently crossed your path.
In these situations your dog isn’t being “naughty” They’re simply having a difficult time with overwhelm, it’s too much for them to process right there and then.
That’s where you come in. You have a unique and powerful gift to offer: the skills to make those moments less difficult. The gift doesn’t come wrapped in shiny paper or bows, but it’s more valuable than anything you could buy. It’s the gift of calmness, trust and understanding-a gift that keeps giving back. Want to have more of an understanding? check out Calm Adventures.
How Can You Give This Gift?
This art of gift-giving for your dog lies in learning how to create calmness during chaos. It means teaching your dog, any yourself, how to pause, gather your thoughts and make a choice with a steady grounded presence.
This isn’t about obedience or commands. It’s about building a connection that reassures your dog, helping them navigate those tricky moments with confidence and ease.
So, the next time you’re faced with a challenging situation, pause and remember.
- Your dog isn’t trying to be a problem they are trying to cope with one.
- Your calmness can become their calmness.
If you’re ready to explore how to master the art of calmness and gift-giving, let’s connect. I’d love to chat and help you uncover the tools and skills that will strengthen your bond with your dog. Together, we can make the world a little less difficult for both of you.
After all, there’s never a wrong moment to give a meaningful gift. Let’s make it happen. Book a Connection Call HERE